When a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship breaks up, it’s tough, but not nearly as tough to deal with as when a marriage ends. The last thing that you want to have happen is to end up losing the woman you married, the woman you love, and the woman that you pictured spending the rest of your life with. Yet, that is the exact point you are at right now. Your wife has been hinting at there being problems in the marriage in the past, but now she seems to be getting more serious about the issue.
Trying to win back your wife can take a lot out of you emotionally, but when you realize that it can be a lot more simple than you are making it out to be, you can get her back and feel at ease in making it happen. While it may not seem like it, you can win back your wife without having to go through all of the usual drama that unfolds in most of these kinds of situations.
Here are some simple tips on how to win back your wife and save your marriage:
1) You need to be ready and able to deal with the reality of the situation.
Some guys choose to try and ignore the fact that the marriage may be breaking down and that their wife is unhappy with the marriage. You do not want to be that guy, the one that would rather pretend that nothing is wrong, because that guy ends up having to deal with the reality AFTER the divorce is already final. If you notice that your wife seems to be unhappy with the marriage and you want to save it, then you have to admit that there really is an issue before you do anything else.
2) You have to make your ex wife see that there is no better alternative to you.
That might sound like a cocky statement, but that is kind of the way that you need to think when trying to get your wife back. After all, a man without confidence does not stand much of a chance, and as long as you can show her that you really are the best guy out there for her, she will be a lot more willing to give things another go. The main thing to remember is, that you need to SHOW her that you are the best guy out there for her, not tell her. Telling her this will get you nowhere. Showing her will bound to make her feel like giving you another chance to work things out.
3) You have to know how to make your wife feel turned on by you.
If there have been issues in the marriage for a while, then you more than likely have also had the spice come out of the relationship and that is something that you need to bring back. She has to feel turned on by you, because without that feeling, the most that you have is a friend or a roommate, but not a real marriage going on. You need to be able to make her feel like you can still get her going and turn her on.